Being his wife...

hello friends,
its been long that i haven't posted anything..because guess what.."i got married.."to whom??a class 1 govt officer..he works for the railways..though initially i had no problem with his job but now i have 1..actually many..first the regular ones..like odd working hours,loud conversations on phone etc etc..and now the serious 1..HIS BOSS...urgh.....he is like my husband's girlfriend..always calls him,sms him,keeps calling him wen d network is down till he gets to talk to my hubby..and if pritiraj(my hubby) is like 30 seconds late in replying then 5 more smses reading"how many times do i need to remind u about the progress" "consider this as urgent"..i mean give him a break yaar..is it necessary to write its important n urgent in each n every sms u write..aah!!i wish i could write even more..exactly the intricate details..

so all the girls out there..plz don marry any govt officer..if u do then make sure that he is not dead honest..else join d club of mine...:):)

LIFE SAYS:”YOU DESERVE MORE THAN YOU DESIRE.TRUST ME!!!”

Life is so strange & surprising... Isn’t it? Yeah everyone was correct; that in life you get what you haven’t thought of even in your wildest dreams or it gifts u the gift which is your sincere passion but stopped dreaming about it since u had social, financial or status issue(s). Life is wonderful u know… anything asked with sincere effort and deepest desire comes to u automatically, just u need to be well equipped and mentally prepared to grab it when it comes. It demands a hell lot of patience too/ once you are extremely aggressive and adamant you literally spoil everything. But this is the beauty of life that it teaches u the perfect balance between passion and resistance; once u start loving it. Try it by yourself. If not the most successful person I assume at least you’ll get immense mental peace which other things in the flashy universe could never have given u.

LET US DISCOVER GOD

At last here we have a question which when googled does not give a satisfactory answer..and the million dollar question is "what/who is god?"no no i m not promoting any of the gods of any religion..

God is a big source of positive energy and this energy is distributed equally among all of us..if it is already distributed then why do we worship,meditate or go to temples??we worship and meditate to get the maximum of the energy that we had wasted in some or the mundane activity of life..so by meditation we derive all the positive energy around us through God.because God is nothing but a work done with ultimate purity and dedication..and the work could be anything..cooking,studying,hating someone,loving someone..just anything..so is meditation..but among all meditation is the best way out as it calms us hence sharply channelizing the energy and positivity..about temples i would say it is a place where a really large amount of energy is stored..anyone can go and have his/her share..some one takes handful,someone takes a sack full of energy..someone comes back empty handed..the amount of energy depends upon the dedication to your work and faith on the almighty..

So lets start a new beginning..taking the name of god..start your day..be passionate of whatever you do..rest the God will ensure..

HOW RISKY IS A RISK

There is a rule of the nature.the creator of the nature,GOD has made it such that everything in the universe tends to stay in equilibrium.the spinning coin,the moving fan,the barking dog,angry boss,shouting kids..everyone and everything always struggle to be in equilibrium..So in life whenever we take a risk obviously there 'll be a change.in other words we break the equilibrium when we take risks..then lots of struggle,hard work and what not..we get success or not that depends on the size of the risk..as we already know equilibrium is our nature..so no matter how many obstacles or disturbances we face and we toil hard to get out of it some day or other we will be back to equilibrium..because that's our nature..now question arises if the state is same as before and after taking the risk then what is the point of making life risky and complicated..the equilibrium stays but the level changes..and the level we decide..whether it has to be upwards i.e.,more satisfaction,more experience,more matured,more respected or downwards i.e.,frustration,failure etc..failure doesn't change anything..just we need to make sure that it does not break us..as it is a step closer to success..

so risk is not that risky if chosen correctly..because the nature guarantees us the equilibrium and we need to ensure the hard work the risk takes..

all the very best..i hope this article helps you the way you wanted it to..

My teacher:the mountains

Last year during this time i was to North India..Though loved all the places but Rohtang hills was my favorite..I learnt a lot of things..now i feel its too unfair that i didnt share it with anyone..too ungrateful..the largeness of the gigantic mountains said it all..

The mountains gave me a sense of security and reassurance that whatever you wish to do with all enthusiasm and interest in your heart will be done.The mountains taught me the steadiness to which i should hold my ground,unfazed and not wavering in the face of crisis.The mountains taught me to maintain my cool as its snowy peaks.It also gave me a message stating the power of the cheerful smile,like how sunshine lights its peaks in shades of orange,silver and gold against a clear,deep,never ending blue sky..

doing my bit (Independence day special)

Though i m not going to pen down something really new and exciting..going to write things which is discussed and scrutinized thousands of times...
As a person,as an Indian i love my country and my love is intrinsic.till date,i get goose bumps and tears in my eyes when i sing or listen to national anthem...I can never dream of leaving my country..but is that enough??May not be..May be i do not know how to show my love for my country..which is why a thought peeped in my mind last night.. which i feel has a lots of sense in.

Patriotism is not about bloodshed and wars(it not about watching parades at home eating popcorn also..missing a Sharukh's movie to watch the parade)..If there is a rule to be followed,i will.If there is a platform ticket to be bought,i will.If there is a tax to be paid,i will.If there is a red signal I will stop(preferably before the zebra crossing).I will be a conscientious citizen,just like anyone else...

few confessions
I can not speak for hours to motivate people and myself being neck deep in corruption.
I can not teach my youngsters freedom if i sink my teeth even in what will my younger brother will wear for a party.
I can not sacrifice my life at LOC but can fight for a person waiting for justice..
I cannot stand in elections but definitely i will caste my vote for the most rightful person
I can not teach everyone but will try to educate at least the lady who comes my place for household work.

my frustu poem

Damn the life
What the hell do u think can prove
so lots of things to improve
what on earth makes u
think that u can actually think
yes i m allergic to bullshit
whats your father's goes if i m sick
help yourself rubbing some ice on the red mark
on your arse
you think things gonna change and work
i tell u life will pin u on a fork
still u say life is beautiful
damn u
life sucks
and sucking rocks \m/



(i don't mean this poem literally...but frustrated at times..when things don't work..)